What is coming out of your mouth, words of praise and encouragement, or words of criticism and cursing? I remember my Mother saying to me many times, "If you don’t have anything good to say, keep your mouth shut". I would get upset when she said that to me. However, Jesus already said the same thing.
We wonder why our spouse, brothers and sisters, children, and friends don’t want to be around us or talk to us. It is because we are saying hurtful, condemning things to them. May God forgive us!
We get upset when someone says something cruel to us, yet we are guilty of doing the same thing to him or her. If we would ever allow Jesus to penetrate our hearts, and not just our minds, we would be much more effective in serving Him as He wants us to serve Him.
Let us always remember that when we hurt others, we break the Heart of Jesus. If making Jesus happy is not our first priority in life, then we need to search our heart and ask Him to forgive us for not putting Him first.